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    We had a lovely day up town yesterday. On Friday night, as we lay in bed, Gav and I discussed catching the train to Brighton the next day. We decided to go for it as long as it wasn’t raining. Fate intervened. When the babies forced me to get out of bed I peeked out of the window and found that it had been raining in the night. It was hard to determine quite what would happen with the weather, as there were ominous, heavy clouds as well as blue sky. We decided to go the safe route, avoid the seaside and to take a trip into central London instead. First we looked at the zoo but discovered that it would cost over £50 to get the six of us in! Instead we turned our attention to the museums. We revealed our plans to the children. The girls were really pleased. They wouldn’t have been so pleased if they realised we’d forfeited a trip to the seaside and the zoo for this choice!

    The day was mission successful although it was gruelling. The girls enjoyed the train journey in. Gav stayed with the babies beside the train doors as I sat with Cara and Zadie playing ‘I spy’. Arriving in London we decided to show the girls Trafalgar Square. There had been grass there randomly for a short time but sadly it had been taken away. Spotting the National Gallery I suggested going in to show Cara Monet’s work. She’d learned about Monet recently and was developing a real pride in her knowledge of artists. I have also sent her into school with a few gallery brochures that I’m on the mailing list for. She’s proud of this little role that she has and I thought it would be very good for her to see the real artist’s work so that she could not only say that she’d seen the real artist’s work but so that I could show her how he painted. We found an entrance which wasn’t too difficult to manoeuvre a pram into, scoured the plan for the room with Monet’s work and set off to Room 43 on the second floor, thankfully by way of lift! It was hugely exciting. I was touched to see that Gav stepped aside a couple of times to look at details of some paintings. He admitted afterwards that he had been really moved almost to tears by some of the work because it was so enormous and must have taken ages to paint. It struck me that my feelings had been exactly the same when I first visited the gallery when I was seventeen. These days it’s very different because I’ve been there so many times that I can happily dash in and out and home in on the one or two pictures that I’m interested in. It was the only thing to do with the little ones. Their attention span wasn’t going to last too long and we had the threat that Cerys and Thomas would start to cry as they were due their morning nap, interrupting the reverent peace of the high, bustling rooms. Reaching Monet’s rooms I led the children straight to Monet’s water lily paintings. First we looked at The Water Lily Pond, the famous painting with the bridge over the lilies. Cara had been drawing water lilies since being shown the most famous ‘Water-Lilies’ painting at school. Sadly that one wasn’t there, or at least we didn’t find it but it was good to show her the pond and the flowers. I had more fun though showing her the coarsely painted ‘The Japanese Bridge’. This bridge is in a few of his paintings but in this particular painting it is nearly abstract. It was fun to show because I have told Cara for a long time that she doesn’t have to stick to lines when colouring in, she can scribble when drawing and painting. Artists do whatever they want! She was initially very dubious about the idea of artists scribbling. On the web I’d shown her Pollocks’ dribble art and it was brilliant to show her some of Monet’s work which was created by using harsh brushstrokes combined to make a canvas full of scribbles.
    “When we stand close it looks like lots of scribbles doesn’t it?” I asked Cara. She nodded, “See how some of the paint is really thick and some isn’t. The brush strokes are curly, just like scribbling. I bet you didn’t think you could scribble when you paint did you?” Cara nodded smiling. “Right, let’s back up a bit.” I was carrying Cara. We stepped back a few paces, through the crowds. “Now what do you see?”
    Cara tried hard to see. It was tricky but I was able to point out the shape of the bridge by comparing it to the other, more clear painting. Cara was really pleased when she worked it out. After Cara had had a look I picked up Zadie to show her the picture too. Zadie was pleased to have that moment to look at the paintings with me and followed my swift narrative happily enjoying picking out the colours she recognised. Gav caught up with me and pointed out that Cerys was a little distressed about being left a few paces away so we made sure she was with us for our next painting. I moved the girls on to see Manet’s work and we stood a few moments in front of ‘The Umbrellas’. In this picture I explained a little about the colours that were used. I asked Cara what colour she thought the lady’s dress was. Cara replied ‘Grey’ which I found quite interesting because Cara is usually spot on with colour and obviously the woman’s dress is a blue but I think that close up in front of this large scale painting she was a little thrown by the complexity of colours painted. Cara understands how colours are made so I explained briefly how the Impressionists used complimentary colours, opposites on the colour wheel to give vividness to the painting. On this painting the highlights on the blue were orange, the direct opposite on the colour wheel. I told her how generally they tried not to use black, the colour of darkness but to use the colours to create works of light. I’ve brought up the children to understand that colours are colour, black and white aren’t colours but a darkness and a lightness and I was pleased to see that she understood. With Zadie I pointed out the child’s face looking out of the ‘Umbrellas’ painting and her rosy cheeks. Zadie is learning to draw faces now and we talked briefly about the features the artist had painted. Moving on we hunted out the Sunflowers.
    “It’s one of the world’s most famous paintings,” Gav and I told Cara and Zadie.
    “Do you like it?” I asked them.
    ”Yes,” Cara replied loyally.
    “I don’t,” I grinned, “I think it’s a bit thickly painted and the colours are sickly. I prefer that one,” I said pointing to ‘A Wheat Field with Cypresses’. “I love the curly painting on that one too.” Years ago I’d painted a copy of that painting and it had inspired me to paint using my fingers in oils for my A-Level mock, earning me a grade A. Sadly in the A-Level finals I messed up the proportions on my friend Anna’s face and only reached a B grade, giving her a rather large nose. We laughed about it afterwards.
    “I think it’s a bit pants,” Gav contributed quietly and we laughed, enjoying the irreverence in the thick of the throng of silent visitors who had travelled from far and wide to see this very painting.
    The final picture I showed the children was Rousseau’s ‘Surprised’ with the tiger. We didn’t get the chance to discuss this one as patience was wearing thin but headed out then. We stopped off at the shop so that the girls could buy a postcard each before leaving. Cara chose a close up of the little girl out of Manet’s ‘Umbrellas’ and Zadie randomly chose a picture of the interior of the gallery.

    We headed up the street, aiming for Tottenham Court Road to reach the British Museum. At the bottom of Charing Cross Road we stopped for a Pizza Hut lunch. It was a real treat although at the moment Gav and I are slightly sensitive about quite how obvious Cerys’s spots still are. Sat in a high chair being a monkey, enjoying the limelight it was hard to hide those spots. A kindly woman stopped by and sympathised with us stating, “chicken pox, I’ve been there too.”

    While we were in the restaurant it began to rain quite heavily. Thankfully I’d packed raincoats for the kids and myself. Gav being as brave as ever had ventured out in his teeshirt. When we stepped out we headed up towards Tottenham Court Road.
    “Borders suddenly looks really attractive!” Gav said as the rain started to get heavier. We passed the old Salsa bar we went to once together. It was a dire night the night I took him. I still remember being disappointed as I’d had so much fun there with colleagues from Sight and Sound beforehand. When the rain eased off we left Borders, the girls clutching a Bratz sticker book each. While it was raining I’d tried hard to find them a good intermediate book to read to them, a book with mostly text but a black and white picture on each page. I hadn’t found any that quite fitted the bill disappointingly.

    We had been humming and ahhing over just going back to the train because of the weather but with a break in the rain we braved the mission finale of getting to the British Museum. I’m now so glad that we did. It took more walking for little legs. I really felt for the girls as I was starting to want to sit down by then. The mission this time was to get to the Mummies as Cara had been learning about the Pyramids in school. Again it was good to have an objective. The first objective though was to find a toilet. Poor little Zee began to need the loo when we were half way down the street on the way to the museum. We hurried along knowing it was nearby but of course reaching the museum it was like getting down another street to find the darned thing. When we got to the loos we found a queue of women about fifteen deep. With a stressed Zadie and Cara in each hand I eyed the queue and grinned to myself as I remembered the nurse’s words in hospital when the babies had RSV.
    “When it comes to our children we each have a tiger in us,” she’d said. I doubt I’ll ever forget those words because it’s so utterly and purely true.
    Addressing the woman at the front of the line I said,
    “I’m so sorry, would anyone mind if we sneaked to the front. I have a very little girl here who is very, very desperate for the toilet.”
    Fifteen faces turned towards us then down at the children. Zadie and Cara looked back at those fifteen faces with dark, anxious eyes, hopping innocently from foot to foot and the waves parted. If they hadn’t goodness knows what would have happened! I didn’t fancy continuing around London with two poor children in wet pants and would probably have removed their undies as a precaution!

    We found Gav outside the museum doors. He’d managed to push the two single buggies into a disabled platform lift to get outside the doors but it would have been nearly impossible for him to have got the pair through without help as the crowd going through was incessant. The girls contributed some money to the large box at the front then we ventured back in. Gav and I looked at the roof and mused over what the old museum would have looked like. It’s very impressive in the main area with the large circular building in the centre with the glass roof, patterned with triangle shapes.

    Finding directions to Africa we zoomed through the crowds, not really stopping to look at the amazing Aztec statutes for more than a brief moment. The girls’ reception to the Egyptian mummies was muted. Zadie looked deeply concerned by the bandaged mummies themselves, peeking at them around the pram. Cara is very interested in ideas about the after life at the moment and I briefly talked her through my understanding of why the Egyptians chose to bury people in this way. They were slightly overwhelmed by the displays and Cara demanded to be lifted to look at a painted face on one of the mummies. We moved on and I showed them the hieroglyphics, the intricate paintings of the eyes and wings and more on the sarcophaguses.
    “Look, there’s bones!” Cara said. I thought she meant on the hieroglyphics and scanned them to find some that resembled some but then laughed as I saw her line of vision. She was eyeing a human skull through a gap and was desperate to get round to see it. We wound our way through the crowds to the other side of the cabinet and Cara and Zadie made impressive ‘ewwww’ noises as they looked at the skulls on display.

    Gav and I nodded to each other at this point that it was time to escape and head back. Zadie had tugged my sleeve and asked,
    “Are we getting the train now mummy?”
    They were tired and we had a long walk ahead.

    The walk back took a while but we broke it up with a quick zip into Virgin Megastore where I sat with Thomas and Cerys. It’s funny because out and about with the babies at this age you can almost forget they are there until you actually sit down with them. They’re still happy to watch the world go by from their prams for most of the time still. Cerys had relieved her pram boredom by laughing at Cara a few times as Cara had pulled faces at her.

    It was then a race for the train. We caught one with minutes to spare and were grateful not to have to wait too long. The double bonus was that the train wasn’t too crowded. On the way back the girls sat together admiring their Bratz sticker books while Gav sat with Thomas behind Cerys and I. Dear spotty Cerys spent much of the journey playing a very lively game of Peep-Bo with Thomas over the seats.

    Day over. Enough said. Lots of fun.

    As an afternote Gav has reminded me of a couple of things. Firstly that we would love to go back either with the kids when they are older or to spend time there without children to actually spend time seeing what is there. Also he pointed out our laughing about one placard which had noted that the statue was graciously donated by Queen Victoria and we’d laughed about how actually that meant ‘robbed’. Also, we’d thought about how amazing it was that with so many of these amazing historic creations that the artists would never have imagined quite how immortalised their work would have been, on view to the whole word. In the case of the mummified royals the bones of what would effectively have been their gods would have been only feet away from far the masses, for centuries to come. It’s bizarre and so hard to comprehend.

  • Another day of spots but in good spirits

    Well I’m surprisingly awake again but I suspect that sleepiness is going to crash down at some point. Gav was a superstar last night and urged me to go to get some sleep early evening. It wasn’t really sleep unfortunately as the girls were being quite boisterous downstairs but I probably managed a good hour which helped to set me up for the night shift. Night shift it was. Cerys was so sore that I had to bring her back downstairs for a second night in the lounge. She stayed awake until ten to four, then woke at four o’clock after weeing on the blankets (still nappy-free). She managed an hour but then Thomas began crying. He was crying for ages on the baby monitor and poor Gav had obviously gone into my usual state of survival shut down so I had to nip up to the rescue. I can’t blame him, I’m usually the one who doesn’t wake and it’s amazing how the body can simply refuse to wake up if it’s tired enough. Thankfully Thomas settled quickly but back downstairs Cerys woke again and that was pretty much it. She slept fitfully but not very well so I didn’t really sleep after that.

    This morning Cara is looking far better, Thomas’s spots seem to be slowing down. Cerys is still completely plastered and very sore and still has fevers but the spots are the deep red now so hopefully she has peaked. She’s still nappy-free and weeing everywhere despite using the potty to play with! Thomas now has a nappy thankfully so a little less running around mopping up.

    The mission today is to get Zadie to preschool without getting the troops into contact with anyone! I wanted to call the preschool to ask if we could arrive a little later to avoid the handover but they’re not answering the phone.

    Blimey Cerys is doing a Teletubby dance behind me, she’s looking far brighter…oh and now playing peep-bo with Thomas round the edge of the drawers at the end of the side passage.

    The girls are upstairs on the Cbeebies website. I’d like to do a bit of cooking with them later if I can scramble together some ingredients. On the food note we have had some real success on the allergy note lately. Cara can now tolerate a little cow’s milk ice-cream. I’ve been giving her a few spoons each day and Zadie is starting to brave a little too and it’s going well. The babies have successfully eaten cheese on toast and pizza so they are fine with cooked milk products. It makes life a lot easier and gives me real hope they’ll all overcome the allergy eventually.

    Right two babies trying to climb on my knee. Better zip.

  • Spots continued...

    I'm rushing on here quickly because today is a race to keep up. Last night I kept Cerys downstairs with me, sleeping her on her old cot mattress while I slept on Tom's old cot mattress beside her. The plan was that I put the waterproof cover on the mattress, lay a couple of towels over it and try to keep her nappy off for the night. With me beside her she did stay in one place thankfully although it was a night of being kicked in the face and howled at. She was in equal discomfort to the trauma that Zee went through and sleep was very minimal and erratic with lively patches between where I'd have to either dispense calpol or put calamine lotion on her spots. Her lower regions and her scalp were giving her the most pain and often she would simply cry with frustration..

    This morning when I woke Gav handed me a coffee and I was amazed to find that I was able to pretty much bounce up and start the day. It's funny how your body can just get on with it sometimes. Thomas is a day behind Cerys with his spots and I suspect that he'll be the one in most discomfort tonight. Thankfully Cara seems to have a mild dose, hopefully that doesn't mean she'll get it again. She does have spots all over her body but quite liberally scattered and isn't in much discomfort at all.

    I managed to get Cerys through the morning with no nappy too which has meant a lot of mopping up and I've only just popped one on to put her to bed with Thomas. I've put them together for their nap this afternoon as they need all the comfort they can get. It was very tempting to sleep with them but both girls are home and badly want some attention too. I've already given the babies three baths today so they're due some fun. We did manage to do some potato printing this morning en masse which was fun although there was a lot of bickering over who had which shape from the girls.

    Right got to wrap up now. I'm in demand for a change!

    xxx

  • Fighting Cocks Pox

    Yes, Fighting Cocks Pox is my new name for the Chicken Pox. The children are far more like feisty cocks than hens! The illness has turned them all into right nag-bags and they're all arguing and tussling over silly things. I'm off to work today so I dread to think what kind of day poor Gav has ahead. Cerys now has the spots too and I think a couple are lurking on Thomas.

    Last night we put the babies into beds for the first time. Zadie moved to a top bunk, Cerys below her and Thomas below Cara. It took about an hour to settle Thomas and Cerys and Zee only went to sleep at about eleven! It's tricky to get them all to sleep because I'm used to settling the babies at the same time. I'm sure we'll find a way. Concerend Cerys kept shouting 'hellooo Tayo' at poor Thomas when I was with her and he was stood at the other bedroom babygate within view. When I settled Thomas Cerys who couldn't see us yowled at her gate. That went on for a while until Gav came up to help and settled Thomas. We then had the rest of the night to convince Cerys that sleep would be good. I'm missing the cages!

  • More spots

    I’ve not long been up; the children woke at a respectable seven thirty but poor Gav. I could tell from the ‘your go’ nudge and the empty bottles that he must have made a few trips in the night again. I’m giving him a lie-in to catch up. Milk has been distributed and the next mission is to dress everyone, as it’s quite nippy this morning. It was blazingly hot yesterday afternoon so it’s hard to tell quite what is going to happen today. I have to admit that I’m quite pleased it looks a little glum at the moment because there will be a little less pressure to dive out and I may get a turn at lying in too.

    I haven’t had much chance to colour in my accounts in the last week. I feel a little more relaxed about adding a few words this morning between children as I managed to get a stack of Ebay clobber up last night so a few pennies will be coming in. Work managed not to pay me for one day last month, which knocked the balance a bit. Thankfully I had the proof that I was there because they still haven’t sorted me out a log-on so I’ve been sending all my internal mail from my hotmail account.

    The big news from this morning is that Cara now has the chicken pox. I thought that she was about to pop the spots after her fevers the night before last. It followed the same pattern as Zadie’s. Yesterday she was off school and spent the day organising me and had no fevers at all. I almost regretted keeping her off! By the evening the fevers had started again and she chilled out enormously, which was a relief. We all sat down together to play Zelda. The girls love Zelda and only play the minimal part of helping me to puzzle solve and pressing the green button to open treasure chests. The tricky part of yesterday was getting Zadie to and from school with Cara in tow. I didn’t want Zadie to miss school and as most of her preschool have had the chicken pox in this round I decided that the best that I could do would be to take Cara along but to set her well back from the other children. It was fine apart from the fact that the most garrulous mother decided to chat to me from the opposite end of the room. While we were talking several other parents came in and I felt more than a little embarrassed holding a conversation about why my daughter was off school, in a place where she was likely to spread her illness! The other mum pointed out sagely that the chicken pox is most contagious before the spots appear. Oh dear! Still I did manage to keep Cara well back so her contact with other children was from a good distance.

    Thomas and Cerys have yet to catch the chicken pox and I’m now ditching my hopes that they don’t get it when in nappies. It’s obvious that they will so I’m hoping that it’s sooner rather than later. I don’t want to be stressing about it happening next month with holiday looming. At least it’s over with then. Zadie is well over it and her spots are healing marvellously. She’s quite jealous of the fact that the attention has diverted from her illness and keeps claiming to feel hot and talks proudly about how she still has spots. Quite comical really!

    The twins are going through that super-powered develop-by-the-day stage where they surprise you every day with what they come out with. Cerys’s favourite thing to say is,‘ha ha, i’s bunnnnnnn’ while she puts on a slightly dorky face when she finds something amusing. She is stringing sentences together now and when she can’t find the words she makes them up, usually when she’s telling Thomas not to do something but she often pulls at my trouser leg and when I drop to my knees she’ll roar with laughter and tell me about something that has happened in complete babble with one or two words she knows thrown in. Thomas isn’t stringing words together yet but he’s beginning to master words very well. His favourite words are ‘nana for any kind of fruit and ‘oo’bor’ for football for any kind of ball and indeed anything remotely resembling something spherical. He says ‘hi’ya’ brightly, in favour of Cerys’s now very posh ‘hello’. The other thing that Thomas has mastered is hitting. The last couple of weeks he has been really going at the boy thing of using every thing that he gets into his chubby mitts as a potential weapon. I now have to look not only at the potential choking hazard of toys but also at their weight and sharp edges! It’s an enormous change from the little Thomas of a couple of months ago who was a complete pushover and had everything taken off him. Cerys still nips in to grab things she wants but these days Thomas toddles after her in his slightly bent-legged way with his arms outstretched like Frankenstein. Cerys will howl and hold her trophy close to her chest and there will be a brief Mexican stand-off before Thomas gives her a good biff. Cerys has another role though. If Thomas gets upset she’ll dive in and say ‘s alrii’ Tayo’ patting him on the shoulder. That usually results in her being biffed too because he can’t stand sympathy when he’s upset. She has decided that taking things to Thomas is her job and when I make a round of drinks she’ll always take Thomas’s to him. He has cottoned on already that he quite likes having things fetched for him. When he’s a bit more mobile I’ll have to get him to do the same back or I’ll have a very pampered young man on my hands.

    Right, time to zip. Between sentences I’ve had to fetch drinks, fruit, breakfast, clothes and now I have to run the bath for the babies. The girls are happily playing Mario Kart together. Gav is still asleep. Thomas just walked in saying ‘baaaall’ and grinned broadly as I played a brief game of catch with him. Catch involved holding the ball up dramatically in a throwing position then slamming it into my hand! He is now pushing a toy car around the floor.

  • Quick Entry

    It has just passed midnight and I'm about to zip to bed but had to pop in a very swift update. Steve, Gav's American boss just called. He was apparently returning Gav's call. Interesting choice of time to call! I've hardly spoken to Steve over the years Gav has worked at his company. I've met him once and he's okay. I found it quite entertaining that he was greeting me,
    "Hi Lou."
    Even though I always reply to notes with a 'Lou' and my best friends call me Lou I tend to often introduce myself as Louise to people I'm not that familiar with. I find it amusing that he thinks I'm that approachable. Gav must paint a warm picture of me!

    Cara is, I think, on the verge of getting the chicken pox as she has had high fevers this evening. The twins are still have a bad viral cough which is low on their chests but are still in good humour and there are no signs of spots and no fevers yet. It will be strange tomorrow with Cara off school taking Zee to school. I bet Cara will enjoy that little venture. I'll have to keep her well back from the other children. We haven't been going to any groups because even though it's good for children to get over the chicken pox early I don't like to be the one choosing to expose them all to it. Sickness is terribly wearing in this house. I demanded that Gav wake me up to take turns with the night-trips the other night. It's incredible how much I sleep through these days. I simply don't wake up if they cry, even if I'm beside them. The other day I offered that I could sleep beside Thomas and Cerys so that Gav could get some rest and I woke to find him up giving the twins a bottle because I hadn't woken! In the last couple of nights he has been nudging me to take turns and it has been far better for him. I don't mind being woken at all if I'm taking turns. It's good to work together on this stuff. Working Sunday has given us a real teamwork edge too.

    I've been trying to get my Ebay clobber sorted out the last couple of days. The children helped me out today as I took a stack of photos by diving in front of the camera each time I took a picture. It took a while to edit out chubby hands, feet and bellies on Photoshop afterwards!

    Right, I'd better get to bed. I managed to get an hour sleep today when the babies went down. We would have been at the toy library if it wasn't for the pox so I felt doubly guilty about not doing something with Zee while I had the chance. She played on the CBeebies website on their bedroom computer beside me as I slept. I'm so glad she has school tomorrow. Right now I'm so tired in the day that I'm useless. The main antics here tend to take place between two and five in the morning and with Cara being poorly she could be joining in with the other three night-owls tonight.

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